Seriously, trigger warning: relationship violence, physical abuse, sexual abuse
June 1987, Madonna was rushed to the Cedars Sinai hospital for an X-ray after her then-husband—Sean Penn hit her across the head with a baseball bat. At the time, they had been having a heart-to-heart talk about reconciling.
Madonna did not make an official complaint because Penn was about to serve a short jail term for attacking a film extra and violating the probation he’d been given for punching a fan. It was a decision she would come to regret. In the late afternoon of December 28, 1988, Penn scaled the wall surrounding the Malibu house and found Madonna alone in the master bedroom.
According to a report filed by Madonna with the Malibu sheriff’s office, the two began to quarrel. Penn told her he owned her “lock, stock and barrel”. When she told him she was leaving the house, he tried to bind her hands with an electric cord. Screaming and afraid, Madonna fled from the bedroom. Penn chased her into the living room, caught her and bound her to a chair with heavy twine. Then he threatened to shave her hair. Penn was “drinking liquor straight from the bottle” and the abuse went on for nine hours, during which he smacked and forced Madonna to perform a “degrading sex act” on him.
He went out to buy more alcohol, leaving Madonna bound and gagged. Some hours later, he returned and continued his attacks, then finally untied her. Madonna then fled the house and ran to her car. Penn ran after her and was banging on the windows of her Thunderbird while she spoke to police on her mobile phone. Fifteen minutes later, she staggered into the sheriff’s office.
Trigger warnings added/bolded by me.
You never hear this stuff in the media, or are reminded about it, and that’s why I want to reblog this. But I have mixed feelings about this one because this is so violent, it’s surprising even to me and I sort of knew about it. It just shows to me how people and by extension the media system tries to ignore this stuff in stars (who are supposed to be aspirational/role models), especially when they’re white and mainstream, because it conflicts with our habits of idolatry in stardom and also makes us think about things that are not welcome in media because it’s obviously shitty but also really suspect so it opens up the conversation to all kinds of feminism issues that just become ignored because rape culture etc. So yea.